Are you exploring your feline side or have a kitten in your life? Kitten play is a unique and exciting part of BDSM, blending power exchange, roleplay, and self-expression in a feline-inspired way.
What is Kitten Play?
Kitten play is a subset of BDSM and a type of animal roleplay or cosplay. The dynamic between the "kitten" (submissive) and their "owner" (dominant) follows traditional BDSM structures but with a playful twist. In kitten play, it's often the kitten that gets pampered! While discipline may still be present, kitten play focuses more on feline traits, from clothing to body language.
Kitten play can be light and fun or more serious, with some kittens entering a state called kittenspace, similar to littlespace or subspace in BDSM. In this altered state, a kitten leaves behind their adult responsibilities, fully embracing the role of a cat. Aftercare is essential to guide them back from kittenspace gently.
If you’re ready to dive into kitten play, here are 16 fun ideas to explore with your partner!
16 Kitten Play Ideas
1. Petting Your Kitten
Petting is one of the most enjoyable aspects for both the kitten and the owner. Stroke the ears, cheeks, back, and tummy gently. The soothing, physical connection builds intimacy and strengthens the bond.
2. Grooming
Grooming, like petting, focuses on hygiene. Brushing your kitten’s hair or gently cleaning their face enhances the nurturing aspect of the relationship.
3. Feeding and Treats
Treats are a fun way to reward your kitten for good behavior. Hand-feed them or present snacks in playful ways, reinforcing the bond between you.
4. Kitten Wear
Kitten ears, tails, paws, and full-body outfits are available in various styles and textures. These accessories help your kitten embody their role more fully, whether they're in kittenspace or just playing around.
5. Kitten Collaring
Collaring is a significant ritual in kitten play. Like traditional BDSM collaring, it symbolizes the trust and commitment between the kitten and their owner.
6. Take Your Kitten for a Walk
Take your kitten for a stroll, either in a private space or a kink-friendly event. Leashes, collars, and ears on display can create a unique experience outside the home.
7. Caging
For some, caging plays a key role in kitten discipline or sensory play. Just as real kittens might need time to calm down, your kitten can feel safe and secure in a comfortable, private cage.
8. Playing in a Cardboard Box
What’s more feline than a cardboard box? Provide a box filled with soft blankets and toys, letting your kitten curl up for a nap after playtime.
9. Kitten Position Training
Help your kitten practice feline-inspired positions. Instead of classic submissive poses, focus on tail-up, belly-up, curled, or standing proudly on all fours.
10. Kitten Commands
Develop a system of verbal commands or hand signals specific to your kitten’s behaviors. Commands can include sitting pretty, raising paws, or curling up by your side.
11. Kitten Toys
Feathers, balls of yarn, and dangling ropes can keep your kitten entertained. Playing together brings out their natural feline instincts and deepens your connection.
12. Kitten Tail Anal Plug
Some kitten tails come attached to an anal plug for dual purposes—offering internal stimulation while allowing your kitten to flaunt their tail. It’s both a fashion statement and a tool of submission.
13. Litter Box or Pee Pads
For kittens who want full immersion into their role, using a litter box or pee pads can add a layer of erotic humiliation or bathroom play. If you’re both into this form of degradation or water sports, it’s an adventurous option.
14. Several Kittens Playing Together
In real life, kittens rarely play alone. Having multiple kittens interact can bring a whole new level of fun, with kittens wrestling, grooming, and tumbling over each other. Perfect for threesomes or kitten-on-kitten play.
15. Scratching Posts
Just like real cats, kittens in BDSM play can enjoy scratching posts! Set up a scratching post or a similar surface where your kitten can scratch, stretch, and release energy. It can be a playful outlet for your kitten to feel more like their feline counterpart.
16. Drinking from a Bowl
For kittens who want to fully immerse themselves into the role, drinking milk or water from a bowl can be a fun, submissive activity. It adds a layer of playful degradation while reinforcing the animal roleplay. You can make this a cute and intimate part of your routine.
Kitten play is all about embracing feline instincts and enjoying a loving dynamic between kitten and owner. These ideas help deepen the connection and allow both partners to explore their roles in a fun, creative, and intimate way.
