If you’re diving into the world of pet play or animal roleplaying, you'll find that specific toys, gear, and accessories can dramatically enhance the experience. These items can help set the scene, shape the dynamic, and fully immerse you and your partner in the roles of owner and pet. Whether you prefer puppy play, kitten play, or pony play, there’s a wide array of options for you to explore. Let’s dive deeper into each of these 25 ideas, giving you a detailed breakdown of how they can add to your pet play fun.
1. Collar
A collar is one of the most iconic symbols in BDSM pet play. Beyond its aesthetic, a collar can be a powerful representation of ownership, submission, and commitment. When a submissive wears a collar, it can signal their place in the dynamic, whether in private or public. In puppy play, a leather or chain collar often fits the theme, sometimes with personalized name tags. Collars range from simple designs to elaborate leatherwork with built-in rings for leashes or tags. Some enjoy adding locks to signify that the collar can only be removed by the dominant, heightening the sense of control and submission.
2. Leash
A leash, when attached to a collar, allows the dominant to physically lead the submissive pet. Whether you’re guiding them in a bedroom scene or outside during a roleplaying session, the leash can symbolize control and dependence. Leashes come in many varieties—short, long, leather, or chain—and can be used for training or restraint. Some leashes are designed to clip onto a body harness or can even double as a makeshift bondage device, keeping your pet close, obedient, and restrained. During puppy play, the leash can also be used as a tool for reinforcing commands like heel or sit, adding structure to the roleplay.
3. Leather Dog Hood
A leather dog hood is a must-have for those who want to fully immerse themselves in puppy play. These hoods are crafted to resemble a dog’s face, complete with ears and a snout. Many hoods come with built-in snaps or zippers, allowing for a snug fit that covers the entire head. Some hoods even have removable muzzles or mouth openings to allow for different levels of interaction, from feeding to gagging. The sensory deprivation of a hood—blocking out some sights and sounds—can help the submissive dive deeper into their puppy role, relying more on their instincts and emotions than on human senses.
4. Puppy Paw Fist Mitts
These mitts are designed to limit the use of your fingers, encouraging you to adopt a more animalistic posture on all fours. By removing the dexterity of human hands, puppy paw mitts force you to act more like a dog, using your paws for balance and movement. The mitts often have padded interiors for comfort and rubber exteriors for durability. They can be used for walking, playtime, or when interacting with toys. These mitts truly enhance the roleplay, forcing you to behave more like a dog—making it harder to perform tasks that would be simple with human hands, like grabbing or opening things.
5. Body Harness
A body harness is another fantastic addition to your pet play gear, especially in public or during intense roleplay. Harnesses can accentuate the submissive's body and are often worn with little or no clothing, adding an extra layer of vulnerability. Some harnesses are designed to resemble those worn by real pets, with strong buckles, adjustable straps, and durable material like leather or nylon. Harnesses can also have rings attached for clipping leashes or restraints, allowing the dominant to guide their pet, tie them up, or even suspend them in certain positions. A body harness can turn your submissive into a display of obedience and control.
6. Muzzle with Ball Gag
A muzzle with a ball gag combines two elements: restraint and silence. The muzzle keeps the submissive’s mouth covered, while the ball gag inside muffles any sounds they try to make. This gear is particularly useful for keeping a "barking" puppy or a chatty kitten quiet, reinforcing their submissive role and forcing them to rely on non-verbal communication. Muzzles often feature leather or rubber straps that secure the gag in place, and they may have breathing holes or additional buckles for adjustment. The sense of helplessness and the inability to speak can enhance the power dynamic in any pet play scene.
7. Bone Gag
Unlike a traditional ball gag, the bone gag is shaped like a dog bone, adding a playful and authentic element to puppy play. This silicone bone fits comfortably in the pet’s mouth, allowing them to chew or bite down without causing damage to their teeth or jaw. Bone gags also contribute to the overall look of the scene, making the submissive look more like a playful or obedient puppy. Some bone gags come with adjustable straps for comfort and security, ensuring that it stays in place during more active play or when the pet is being led around on a leash.
8. Dog Crate
A dog crate offers a safe, enclosed space for your pet to relax, sleep, or be placed in time-out if they misbehave. Crates come in various sizes, from small cages to larger enclosures that can comfortably fit an adult on all fours. For many submissives, the feeling of confinement in a crate can enhance the experience of being controlled and taken care of. Crates are often lined with blankets or soft bedding to ensure comfort during longer periods of time inside. You can even lock the crate to reinforce control and set boundaries during scenes.
9. Chew Toys and Balls
Chew toys and balls serve a dual purpose in pet play: they keep your submissive occupied and add a layer of realism to the roleplay. Submissives can chew on rubber bones, squeaky toys, or soft plush animals, mimicking the playful behavior of a real pet. Balls, on the other hand, can be used for interactive games like fetch, where the dominant throws the ball and the submissive retrieves it. These toys create a fun, lighthearted atmosphere while maintaining the dynamic of owner and pet. Some even enjoy incorporating fetch as a reward for good behavior or as part of puppy training.
10. Treats
Treats are an important aspect of pet play, especially when reinforcing good behavior. Whether it’s literal pet treats or something more suited for human consumption, offering a reward for following commands like sitting, heeling, or begging can deepen the power exchange dynamic. You can create a system where your pet earns treats based on their obedience or performance in roleplay scenarios. Some people use bite-sized snacks, chocolates, or even sugar cubes for their pony play scenes. These small rewards reinforce positive behavior and keep the submissive engaged and motivated.
11. Kitten Ears and Tail
Kitten play often focuses on the playful, elegant, and slightly mischievous nature of cats. To fully embrace the role, kitten ears and tails are essential accessories. Ears are usually attached to a headband, making them easy to wear and adjust, while tails can be clipped onto clothing or attached to a butt plug for added stimulation. These accessories are available in various styles, from short and perky ears to long, fluffy tails. Some tails have built-in vibrators for additional pleasure during play, while others are purely decorative, helping the submissive feel more feline and playful.
12. Fursuits
Fursuits take animal roleplay to the next level by fully covering the body in fur-like material. These suits are often custom-made to resemble specific animals, such as cats, dogs, or ponies. Fursuits can range from simple designs with just a headpiece and tail to full-body suits with intricate details. They are ideal for those who want a tactile experience during pet play, as the sensation of fur against the skin can enhance the submissive's immersion in their role. While they can be warm and restrictive, fursuits add an incredible visual element to the scene.
13. Brushes and Combs
Grooming is an intimate way to care for your pet during play, and brushes and combs can make this experience more interactive. By using real pet grooming tools, you can run a brush through your submissive’s hair, gently untangling knots or simply massaging their scalp. This act of grooming can be soothing and meditative, reinforcing the bond between dominant and submissive. It’s a moment of nurturing in what can sometimes be a power-heavy scene, allowing both partners to enjoy a break from more intense roleplay while still maintaining the pet and owner dynamic.
14. Cat Toys
Kittens, like real cats, are often playful and curious. To keep your submissive engaged, introduce a variety of cat toys into your scenes. Feathered wands, bells, or small plush mice can be used to encourage your kitten to chase, pounce, and “hunt.” These toys help emphasize the submissive’s role as a playful and agile creature, while also providing an opportunity for the dominant to tease or reward them. Cat toys can be used in a lighthearted way to strengthen the connection between partners, adding an element of fun and spontaneity to the roleplay.
15. Pet Food Dishes
Feeding your pet from real food dishes can add authenticity to your play. These dishes are placed on the floor, and the submissive eats or drinks from them as a real pet would. You can use actual pet bowls or human-safe versions filled with snacks, water, or other foods that are part of the roleplay. The act of eating from the floor heightens the pet play dynamic by reinforcing the submissive's role and adding an additional layer of humiliation and control. Watching your pet eat from a dish while on all fours can be an empowering experience for the dominant, while the submissive fully immerses in their role, focusing on their animal instincts and submission.
16. Litter Box
For kitten play, incorporating a litter box can be part of a more advanced roleplaying scenario, particularly for those interested in kinkier activities like piss or scat play. A large litter box can serve as a designated space for the submissive to relieve themselves, mimicking a real cat’s behavior. This can heighten feelings of degradation, especially in the context of toilet control and humiliation kinks. The submissive is fully committed to their role as a pet, while the dominant asserts control over all aspects of their pet's life, including when and how they relieve themselves.
17. Cardboard Boxes
Cats love boxes, and so do many participants in kitten play! Large cardboard boxes can be used as cozy spaces for your submissive to curl up in for naps, adding a realistic and playful element to the scene. These boxes can be placed around the room for your kitten to explore, sit in, or hide in during the roleplay. Moving the box to a sunny spot or near a heater can mimic a cat’s natural desire to seek warmth, allowing your submissive to fully indulge in their kitten persona. It’s a fun, inexpensive way to add to the immersive experience.
18. Bunny Hoods and Masks
Bunny hoods and masks are great for transforming your submissive into a playful rabbit or bunny. These hoods often cover the face, leaving openings for the eyes, nose, and sometimes the mouth, creating a cute yet slightly mysterious look. Some hoods also come with detachable gags, adding an extra element of restraint. The long bunny ears attached to the hood complete the transformation, making the submissive look like a mischievous or obedient bunny, ready to hop around the play space or serve their dominant. Bunny masks are a lighter option if a full hood feels too restrictive, still allowing you to embody the character.
19. Animal Tail Butt Plug
A tail butt plug is a popular item for both pony, puppy, and kitten play. These plugs come in various sizes, with fluffy tails that mimic the animal your submissive is roleplaying as. For kittens, tails are often long and slender, while puppy tails tend to be shorter and curlier. For pony play, a long, flowing tail is attached to the plug, creating a majestic look. The sensation of the plug, combined with the visual effect of the tail, can make the submissive feel more immersed in their role. Some plugs also have vibrating features, adding an element of pleasure to the roleplay.
20. Pony Head Bridle
For pony play enthusiasts, a leather bridle is essential. A pony head bridle, complete with blinders, a bit, and sometimes a muzzle, transforms your submissive into a full-fledged pony. The blinders limit their peripheral vision, focusing their attention on the commands of their owner, while the bit gag fits comfortably in their mouth, restricting speech and adding to the authenticity of the scene. The leather straps wrap around the submissive’s head, often attaching to a harness that completes the look. Bridles can be decorative or functional, depending on the level of control you want to exert during the roleplay.
21. Pony Bit Gag
A pony bit gag is an integral part of pony play, providing both a visual and functional element to the roleplay. This gag is designed to look like a horse’s bit, fitting between the submissive’s teeth and secured with straps around the head. It restricts speech and adds a level of control, as the submissive must respond to their dominant’s reins and commands. The gag can be used during training, parades, or simply as part of the pony’s everyday attire. It reinforces the submissive’s role as a docile, well-trained animal, fully under the guidance of their owner.
22. Pony Hoof Mitts
Pony hoof mitts are designed to replace the submissive’s hands with hoof-like coverings, further enhancing their pony transformation. These mitts are often made of rubber, latex, or leather and fit snugly over the hands, making it difficult to use fingers. The mitts are padded to allow the submissive to trot, gallop, or crawl on all fours, giving them a more authentic pony experience. The restrictive nature of the mitts encourages the submissive to fully embrace their role, relying on their dominant for guidance and care. Pony hoof mitts can be used in combination with other pony gear for a complete look.
23. Grooming Gear
Just like real pets, your submissive pony or kitten will need regular grooming. Hand brushes, combs, and sponges can be used to groom your pet’s fur or hair, creating an intimate moment between the dominant and submissive. Grooming can be a calming activity that reinforces the pet-and-owner relationship. It can also be a way to prepare the submissive for a parade or show, ensuring they look their best. Some dominants enjoy using actual grooming tools, while others prefer toy sets designed for children or animals. Either way, grooming becomes a bonding experience that deepens the dynamic.
24. Riding Crop
A riding crop is a staple in pony play but can also be used in other forms of pet play. It’s a flexible, lightweight tool that allows the dominant to deliver swift, precise slaps to the submissive’s body. In pony play, the crop is often used to command the pony to move forward, change pace, or correct behavior. In puppy or kitten play, the crop can serve as a reminder of the dominant’s control, offering light taps or firmer strikes depending on the submissive’s preferences. The crop adds an element of discipline to the scene, enhancing the power dynamic.
25. Ribbons
Ribbons are the finishing touch to any pet play scene, especially in pony play. In competitive settings, ribbons signify achievement, such as first place or best in show. You can use ribbons to reward your submissive for good behavior or exceptional performance, attaching them to their bridle, harness, or tail. Ribbons can also be used in puppy or kitten play, as a way to mark special moments or successes during training. These small rewards reinforce positive behavior and make your pet feel appreciated and valued, deepening the connection between dominant and submissive.
Conclusion
Pet play offers endless opportunities for creativity, connection, and immersion in BDSM dynamics. From the simple addition of a collar and leash to more elaborate gear like fursuits or pony harnesses, each piece of equipment enhances the experience, allowing participants to fully embrace their roles as owner and pet. Whether you’re exploring puppy play, kitten play, or pony play, these toys and gear help set the stage for unforgettable roleplaying sessions, bringing you and your partner closer together in your shared kink.
